Do It For The Crop Top: Starting Now is the Best Thing

Do It For The Crop Top: Starting Now is the Best Thing

Ladies, I am telling you, do things that scare you no matter how afraid you are. The best thing would be that you ended up with results you wanted. The other case would be you realized you screwed up and it did not work out the way you wanted. Silver lining to the second scenario? At least now you won’t keep thinking about what if. Set an example, if not for anyone else set it for you. You can always come back home and eat nutella with a spoon while crying to Grey’s Anatomy.

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Lessons Learned from Dating Post-Divorce

Lessons Learned from Dating Post-Divorce

When I went through my divorce nine years ago, I thought that my life was over and that I would be alone for the rest of my life. My self-esteem was non-existent and I no longer knew what I had to offer anyone. Once I got back into the dating game my fear of being alone propelled me into relationships with anyone who would give me the time of day. From controlling to the unmotivated businessman, the men I was attracting into my life were lackluster but I held on instead of dealing with my feelings of loneliness.

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5 SELF CARE TIPS: HOW TO MAINTAIN YOUR SANITY

5 SELF CARE TIPS: HOW TO MAINTAIN YOUR SANITY

Commit to yourself to regularly practice these 5 self-care tips. You will find that your days are lighter and less stressful. You’ll feel rejuvenated. You’ll be more productive and accomplish way more than when you ran on “E”. Remember, “E” stands for empty and exhausted, and you ain’t getting anywhere with that, Honey! You know how you wish you had more hours in a day? Practice self-care, and they magically appear in the same 24 hours you had before! How? I don’t know, but it happens! You’ll likely end up with true free time on your hands. Bonus tip for you over-achievers: if you add in healthy eating and moving your sexy body around, that’ll only boost your energy even more! Now, get out of here, and get yo’ self-care on!

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Love & Success: Women Don't Forget Your Place

Love & Success: Women Don't Forget Your Place

Work harder, smarter, faster, but don't lose your femininity. Regardless of what a woman wants to do with her life, she can't forget "her place".  The burden comes along with the fact that essentially, a woman has it inbred in her to be a nurturer. A woman has the natural ability to touch anything and bless it. She has the ability to heal tears before they start, often times whether she is a mother or not. Men are most successful when their backbone is strong, that backbone being a woman- mother, sister, partner, wife, daughter or friend.  In the moments of love and devotion, the lack of verbal gratitude can cause the woman to feel unappreciated and lead to bitterness. 

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TRUE LIFE: INSANITY DOESN'T WORK

Once I released toxic people around me.  That was difficult, because some of those relationship I’ve known for years.  But at the same time I recognized that I was creating insanity.  Practicing the same methods over and over was not attracting the man that I wanted.

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